Friday, October 29, 2010

101 ways 4a stressfree life :)

 
1. Get up 15 minutes earlier
2. Prepare for the morning the night before
3. Avoid tight fitting clothes
4. Avoid relying on chemical aids
5. Set appointments ahead
6. Don't rely on your memory ... write it down
7. Practice preventive maintenance
8. Make duplicate keys
9. Say "no" more often
10.Set priorities in your life
11. Avoid negative people
12. Use time wisely
13. Simplify meal times
14. Always make copies of important papers
15. Anticipate your needs
16.. Repair anything that doesn't work properly
17. Ask for help with the jobs you dislike
18. Break large tasks into bite size portions
19. Look at problems as challenges
20. Look at challenges differently
21. Unclutter your life
22. Smile
23. Be prepared for rain
24. Tickle a baby
25. Pet a friendly dog/cat
26. Don't know all the answers
27. Look for a silver lining
28. Say something nice to someone
29. Teach a kid to fly a kite
30. Walk in the rain
31. Schedule play time into every day
32. Take a bubble bath
33. Be aware of the decisions you make
34. Believe in yourself
35. Stop saying negative things to yourself
36. Visualize yourself winning
37. Develop your sense of humor
38. Stop thinking tomorrow will be a better today
39. Have goals for yourself
40. Dance a jig
41. Say "hello" to a stranger
42. Ask a friend for a hug
43. Look up at the stars
44. Practice breathing slowly
45. Learn to whistle a tune
46. Read a poem
47. Listen to a symphony
48. Watch a ballet
49. Read a story curled up in bed
50. Do a brand new thing
51. Stop a bad habit
52. Buy yourself a flower
53. Take time to small the flowers
54. Find support from others
55. Ask someone to be your "vent-partner"
56. Do it today
57. Work at being cheerful and optimistic
58. Put safety first
59. Do everything in moderation
60. Pay attention to your appearance
61. Strive for Excellence NOT perfection
62. Stretch your limits a little each day
63. Look at a work of art
64. Hum a jingle
65. Maintain your weight
66. Plant a tree
67. Feed the birds
68. Practice grace under pressure
69. Stand up and stretch
70. Always have a plan "B"
71. Learn a new doodle
72. Memorize a joke
73. Be responsible for your feelings
74. Learn to meet your own needs
75. Become a better listener
76. Know your limitations and let others know them, too
77. Tell someone to have a good day in Latin
78. Throw a paper airplane
79. Exercise every day
80. Learn the words to a new song
81. Get to work early
82. Clean out one closet
83. Play patty cake with a toddler
84. Go on a picnic
85. Take a different route to work
86. Leave work early (with permission)
87. Put air freshener in your car
88.. Watch a movie and eat popcorn
89. Write a note to a far away friend
90. Go to a ball game and scream
91. Cook a meal and eat it by candlelight
92. Recognize the importance of unconditional love
93. Remember that stress is an attitude
94. Keep a journal
95. Practice a monster smile
96. Remember you always have options
97. Have a support network of people, places and things
98. Quit trying to fix other people
99. Get enough sleep
100.Talk less and listen more
101.Freely praise other people

Monday, October 11, 2010

All abt a S(f)unday....10/10/10 :) :D

Hi folks ,
            hope ur gud . . . Well I m extremely happy in writin dis note 4several reasons . I guess its sterday eve I came 2know abt dis date d jus seein it made me smile :) By midnt As a 1st step f my joy I changed my profile pic in fb , then made all things which gives me smiles , pics , songs , videos d so on d on d on . . Atlast came 2bed arnd 1am but not in a mood2 sleep . . So typed a big sms d fwd it 2plenty people d slept happily . . Then dis mrng woke up by 9.50am since it was a sunday :)


                   De 1st thing I do every sunday s search my mob d ring 2one f my friends mom . . That bloody's name s prabakar who s roamin de streets f sydney . . Another reason 4my happiness s dat dumbass s opening a restaurant 2day by 10.10.10am in Brunswick . . So asusual I cald her spoke 4few mins , then cald 2my aunt who s pretty close,my mom's sis , then 2another girl who s much close 2me . . So by 10.20am I happily came out f my room smilin :) I m a big fan f my mom's tea , so grabbed a cup in not more than 10mins . . Then time jus flied meetin my friends d my neighbouring kids . . It was arnd 4.00pm I guess , de kids pulled me 2play shuttle . I wholeheartedly went out ,but 2my surprise a bat was not in a playin condition. . So at once I kicked my bike 2de nearby mall picked 2 bats d plenty other stuff which itched my eyes . . Finally came home by 5pm , all set2 play d de game started . In few mins all were sweatin d some inner voice f mine said she ll come , she ll come :) . Not more than 3mins she came . . A girl livin in de next street , by whom my buddies link me in talks . . She came closer d closer , I jus closed my eyes d opened , a light smile in my face d hers too . . In a fraction f a sec plenty memories in my mind flashed . . Then I went 2de other side knowin she ll return back . . As I thought she came back in few mins :) but by dis tym my dad d bro was out f my house . I donno exactly wat2 do but was happy :), jus leaned near my bike d saw her passing-by smiling :) . . Dat single short smile ruined me . .Then again my buddies came home d went out 4a chat d returned home by 9pm . . Had a nice dinner wit puppet d logged on 2de internet :)

                           So mrng 10.10am I was happy d I wanted de same at 10.10pm . . Jus logged in all useless sites d cud see a bunch f my buddies online . . Atlast grabbed a gal 4m m'sia , humble hearted frnd f mine . . Pinged her d she dived in arnd 10pm :) she has jus updated her blog , I came 2knew it thro fb . . So was readin it , parallely chattin wit her in yahoo :) De title was Luv s de 7th sense dat kills all 6senses . . In few mins read it d by now it was 10.08pm . . She was already in a hurry since she has her exams 2moro . . And finally de clock ticked 10.10pm . . I typed her lyk I agree wit u dear, luv s de 7sense dat kills all other 6senses but I wud lyk 2tel u somethin now @10.10.10pm :) ISD :) I LUV U :D.. I thought she ll shout since she hates de word luv recently but atonce she replied LUV U2 BUDDY :) So ended another
happy day In my life :). .2endup dis note
lemme share another stuff.. Usually I sleep@ home
keepin de temp @24 but now I m writin dis hearin 2my
fav songs d freezin @16 :) smiles smiles smiles :) :) :)

Monday, June 21, 2010

Its Daddy's day.....----.....LUV U DAD :)

hi folks,


I decided something to write 4my dad d came here ,wondering wher 2 startwit abt my man,my role model,my guide,my hero MY DADDY...Jus rewinding my memories takes me straight 2a village,no no a remote village cald Enamangalam somewher near de town Chetpat..Yes dat was de birth place f my daddy in 1948..He was born to s poor farmer who himself was struggling 4peanuts wit his small piece f land..Even now its a village hardly 1 r 2buses a day,then jus think in de 1950s..It seems lyk my granny died when my dad was in class 8th.My dad has 1elder bro..Later my grandpa has married again was busy wit his production work it seems.5kids again,2sons,3daughters..My

dad wit his bro has really struggled a lot for these folks.His school was some 8~10 miles 4m his hut d he has 2 walk daily d no other option too.Finished his schoolings,den started his college in pachaiyapas studied,studied,studied..plenty actually..B.A,M.A,M.ED,M.Com d I really dont know the pending list..But I still remember when I was in my4th r 5th too he was studying..Later grabbed a job somewher started 2 build a house in his native..The first brickhouse in der sorrounding.I still remember my holidays spent der during my schoolings.My dads elder bro was a conductor in PATC d my dad a teacher in a govt. school.These 2men has did almost everythng to their bro d sis even if dey were 4m a stepmother.Who has a HEART lyk dis.U nor ME ?


Later my dads marriage,de turning point of his life 4sure..My mom 4m walajapet ,wher Iam now,de daughter f a Tasildar..I dont know how it all happened but evrythng was over d my mum joined hands wit dad in their village...Jus think how cud a girl feel,born d brought up in a town ,had servants 4 evrywork d now all alone in a remote village.But she wasnt dropped ,wit heart full confidence has boosted my daddy..Later several up's d downs,transfers,promotions
,but life was moving happily..I still remember in ma dad's retirement function.He said lyk dis.Enaku paadhi padipu koduthadu en petror endral,meedhi paadhi en manaivi dan.Aval andru illaiu endral nan indru inda idathil irundirukamaaten.(If half f ma education was given by my parents de other half by my wife,if she was not der dat time I ud ve not been here now).He almost cried @dis point..


I am proud to say Iam a DADDY'S BOY.Moreover a lookalike f him..Yes plenty people say this ,I am more f my dad in several activities..Even sterday a close pal f mine said it..I was jus rolling a bus ticket infront f ma house 4scratching my ears, he immediately said Apadiye appa maari pannu(do wat ur dad does),I smiled d we started bub bub bub bla blaa.Jus few mins back my dad peeped into my room d said-dai poi kuliyanda(go take shower)I @once replied... daddy 2day s fathers day,gimme ur hand,shook his hand,smiled a bit.Nan oru mukiama velaila irukan ,mudichitu poi kulikiren(doin some imp work,ll take shower once I finish).People spk a lot abt simplicity d I ve seen it wit dis gentleman..If I was in his state I ud ve bought a HONDA CIVIC long back d measured de roads,but he still uses his bicycle d rarely moped as a mode f transpotation..He even sleeps under de ceiling fan or sometimes under de sky infront f our house, eventhough he has a airconditioned master bedroom in his house...jus salute u DAD d thank de almighty 4giving me such a dad...luv u loads..hmmmm finished my work 4which I entered my room d now a question arises inside me ...Shud I take bath now?? lols


"F" aithful.

"A" lways there.
"T" rustworthy.
"H" umble d helping.
"E" ver-loving.
"R" estless


SALUTE U - DADDY

Saturday, May 8, 2010

Boyz II Men - A Song For Mama

Udayaaaaaa my luv


Thnks a lot UDAYAAA..FOR de luv u gave me,4m de 1st day I came into this world,ur gentle hands were ther 2 hold me,shelter d cradle me wit kindness.As I grew,U kept me 4m harm,warm 4m de cold d shielded me 4m de pain of hunger..U thought me 2 say these words "mummy","daddy",Its U who helped me take dat first timid step d squeal wit joy @de sight of silliness d fuzzy animals.As I grew still 4m a child 2 a man U stayed strong by my side,kissing away d wiping away tears.Ur patient voice calmed me 4 all those broken toys.U did it all,right 4m taking me 2 skool to choosing my dresses,never did I hear U complain or falter in Ur devotion 2 me.The days dat i spent in hospital d home after dat r always remembered...No1 other than u cud be so himble 2me...I still remember de days u walked in de rain giving the small umbrella to me.I still remember de days u shouted 4me,prayed 4me,supported 4me and wat not..Although words can never be enough,I wud lyk2 say it again..I LUV u MORE THAN U luv ME..U may ask a reason,here it goes....U ve three kids,U already ve daddy,so ur luv is diversified...but I ve only UUU...Happy mothers day folks...

Wednesday, January 20, 2010

A horror story......Light hearted.... pls omit

horrOR story(Weak heartz PLS omit)

Once upon a time in AFRICA in a village neraby ther was 2 good friends named Arun
kumar d Prabhakar..This his how the story starts..Arun who was abroad was on a
vocation,planned to visit prabhakaran's home sweet home..So they
both planned a week ago d atlast met each other.Since both are
good in drinking,they started to enjoy the saturday night..Yes
they started to booze to the core..Arun was a bit anxious in
watching the EVIL DEAD movie which was screening somewher near
praba's house.He somehow convinced prabha d they went to the
theatre..Both were a bit feared after seeing the movie d came
out wit some wicked eyes..They started home wit their bike d it
was almost midnight.To their badluck the bike was off on their
way d they were helpless on the roads.Both were damn shocked d
plenty of questions arose in their minds.Arun asked PEI IRUKUDA
MATCHI??EPADI IRUKUM?..No answers from the other side since
the movie is still running in their minds.Their destination
was not too long its jus 2kms away from the place wher they
r standing now..They convinced themselves d tried 2 get the
help of their frnds..Took their mob,not even a min both of thier
signals were missing.The situation gets worse d worse,can,t
find someone for help.Plenty of vehicles passed by, but none stopped.
Both started to sweat now in fear.Rain has already started,winds
blow like in hell..Worst situation faced by them in their
lifetime...Atlast they saw 2 lights coming near d was astonished
it was a bus..They threw their bike to a corner d got into the bus.
To their surprise the was empty,but still moving in a small speed.
Both of them cant guess wat the fucks happening..They were in
chaos to the core.The bus is still moving on the same road,poor
climate outside too..Till now the road was straight but in the
next few yards a big left turn comes d if the bus doesnt turn
it ll fell into a bid pit..The turn comes closer d closer ,
these guys plannig to jump,thundering outside,poor rains,bad weather,
d wat not...This is the damn shitty thing happened,when the turn
came they could see a hand alone which operates the steering..
Thats it ,they stay stunned..lub tub lub tub lub tub..lub tub lub tub lub
.....They stand still shivering,somehow managed to get down
nearby prabs's house..Then this happened,a hand slapped Arun d then
the other..Then they heared a voice saying dey konga pasangala
vandi breakdown achunu naangale kashta patu thallitu
vanda neenga ulla irukingale??Are u guys adding
salt in ur food??It was the driver's voice
followed by the conductor d they both were bombarded
like anything d went home wit minor injury,little bit of bloods..He he he